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Sexual health

Looking after your sexual and reproductive health is important.  It is much more than avoiding unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It’s about feeling positive about your body, being able to feel sexy or intimate, whether or not you have a sexual partner or are in an intimate relationship.

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Protection and contraception

Knowing your own body

Sexual health symptoms that need treatment

Family and sexual health

Protection and contraception

Having an enjoyable sex life is easier if you are not worrying about an unplanned pregnancy or a sexually transmitted infection (STI).

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are infections caused by bacteria, viruses or parasites that are passed during sexual contact.  They include: chlamydia, genital herpes, gonorrhoea, genital warts, syphilis, HIV and pubic lice. Anyone who is having any type of sexual contact with someone else can be at risk of STIs. You don’t need to have had penetrative sex to catch one. They can be passed on through:

  • unprotected vaginal, anal or oral sex
  • sharing sex toys that aren’t washed or covered with a new condom each time they’re used
  • your genitals coming into contact with your partner’s genitals
  • some STIs are passed on through skin to skin contact

Many STIs don’t have any symptoms, and you can’t tell from looking at someone whether or not they have one. The only way to find out if you have an STI is to get tested. It’s free to get tested for STIs at Sexual health clinics, such as the New Croft Centre. Staff won’t judge you. The service is completely confidential, meaning they won’t tell anyone you have been there (unless they are acting to prevent abuse or to protect someone from risk of harm). If you have no symptoms (signs) of an infection, you can be tested without having to be examined, by either peeing in a pot or by self taken swabs.

Find out more about sexually transmitted infections at Sexwise and the NHS website.


If you’re having penetrative penis in vagina sex and want to prevent pregnancy, there are 15 different methods of contraception to choose from. They’re available free from your GP or sexual health clinic.

Contraception needs to be used until the menopause. This is two years after last having a period if you’re aged under 50, or one year if aged over 50. This advice may be different if you’re using hormonal contraception.

The only method of contraception that also protects you from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is a condom.   Find out more about all the methods at Sexwise or NHS.UK

Contraception is free for everyone and all ages at the New Croft Sexual Health ServiceThis include asylum seekers, refugees, if you are not normally resident in the UK or have no fixed address.


Condoms are a barrier method of protection that reduce the risk of someone with an STI passing it to a sexual partner during sexual contact. They are about 98% effective at preventing infections such as chlamydia and gonorrhoea. They are less effective at preventing some STIs such as, genital herpes and genital warts which can be passed on through skin-to-skin contact.

They are available as either:

  • external or male condom they are: put on a penis or sex toy to cover it during sexual contact, usually made from latex but are also available in other materials for those with latex allergy
  • internal or female condom (sometimes called a Femidom) these are inserted into the vagina or anus and line it loosely and are made from polyurethane (soft plastic) or nitrile polymer (synthetic rubber)

It’s important to make sure you know how to use condoms them correctly. They both should be used only once and then disposed of in a bin, not down the loo. Water based lubricant can be used on top of the condom to give extra slipperiness and make penetrative sex more comfortable and enjoyable.  It’s important to use a condom that is the right size for you, as if it is too large or loose, it can slip off. Vegan condoms are also available from some sexual health clinics (some vegans prefer to avoid some types of latex condoms that are processed using the milk protein, casein).

A dental dam (sometimes called a dam) is a soft latex or polyurethane square, about 15cm in size, which is used to cover the vulva or anus during oral sex or ‘rimming’, which is stimulation of the anus and area around it with the mouth and tongue. The dam acts as a barrier to prevent sexually transmitted infections being passed between partners.

Contraception is free for everyone and all ages at the New Croft Sexual Health ServiceThis include asylum seekers, refugees, if you are not normally resident in the UK or have no fixed address.

Emergency contraception

If you have had unprotected penis in vagina sex or think your usual contraceptive method has failed, emergency contraception can be used up to 5 days after unprotected sex. The sooner you access it, the more chance it has of being effective to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. There are 2 types of emergency hormonal contraception (pill):

  • EllaOne which can be taken up to 5 days after unprotected sex
  • Levonorgestrel (sometimes called Levonelle), which can be taken up to 73 hours (3 days) after unprotected sex

The emergency contraception pill is available for free in most community pharmacies in Newcastle under the ‘Plan B’ scheme. Make sure you ask for the Plan B-trained pharmacist, otherwise you might need to pay. It is also available for free from the New Croft Centre, other sexual health services and most walk-in centres.

An IUD or copper coil can be inserted up to 5 days after unprotected sex. This is the most reliable form of emergency contraception and can be fitted at the New Croft Centre and some GP surgeries.

The only method of contraception that also protects you from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is a condom.

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Knowing your own body

It is important to know the sexual anatomy of your own body, understand sex and sexual health terms and recognise symptoms that are unusual.  If you are uncertain, then you can look up information on AskBrook or visit the New Croft Sexual Health service or Streetwise for information and advice.


There are a number of words and phrases that are used to refer to genitals and the parts of the body that people enjoy using during sexual activity.  It’s useful to know the correct terms for the different parts of your body, even if you don’t use those words in everyday life. Usually, people will have either a vulva, clitoris and vagina or a penis and testicles. The anus is the opening in your bottom and the perineum is the sensitive skin between the anus and the genitals.


Consent means agreeing to do something. Sexual consent means you agree to have sex or take part in sexual activity. Consent is essential in any sexual contact, from touching and kissing, to oral, anal and vaginal penetration with a penis or other objects.

By law you can consent to sex or sexual activity at the age of 16. The law applies to all genders and sexualities in England and Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland.

Sexual assault or rape

If someone forces you to do something you do not want to do of a sexual nature, it is never your fault and it is not okay. If this has happened to you, you should report it or speak to someone you trust to get help and support.  Any sort of sexual activity without consent is illegal, whatever the age of the people involved and whatever your relationship.

If you are unable to give consent or you feel pressured, scared or you’re drunk or high and a person still has sex or a sexual activity with you this is a sexual assault or rape.

Find out more about sexual violence and consent.

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Sexual health symptoms that need treatment

Symptoms of STIs

Many STIs do not have symptoms. However, if you have any of the following symptoms, get a test straight away.

If you test positive for any STI, your clinic will encourage you to talk to any current sexual partners and sometimes to your previous partners, so they can be tested as well. The clinic will help you find the best way to talk to other people if you need to, and can notify and even contact them for you through ‘partner notification’ without even mentioning your name.

Some STIs, such as chlamydia and gonorrhoea, can be treated and cured with a short course of antibiotics. Other STIs, such as genital herpes or genital warts, can be managed with treatment of symptoms.

HIV is a sexually transmitted infection that cannot be cured, but someone who is diagnosed as having HIV (being HIV positive) can be treated to manage the condition, allowing them to live with the condition without it affecting their health and suppressing the amount of virus in their body to such a low level that they cannot pass it on.

Other sexual health conditions that need treatment

Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is the most common cause of vaginal discharge. It is not an STI but it is more common in women who are sexually active.

Cystitis is not an STI but sex can trigger it. It is usually caused by bacteria irritating the bladder lining and a common symptom is pain when you wee.

Hepatitis is the medical name for inflammation of the liver. There are different causes of hepatitis, some of which are viruses and can be transmitted through sexual activity.

Pubic lice are very small, crab-like creatures which live in the pubic hair.

Proctitis is not an STI but STIs can trigger it. Proctitis means soreness and swelling of the rectum, the passage that carries faeces out of the body.

Thrush (candidiasis) is an infection that is caused by a yeast; it’s not sexually transmitted, but it can sometimes appear after you’ve had sex.

Trichomoniasis (also known as Trichomonas, or TV) is caused by a tiny parasite infecting the vagina in women and the urethra in both men and women.

Urethritis is not an STI but sex and STIs can trigger it. Urethritis means inflammation of the urethra, the tube that carries urine out of the body from the bladder.

Vaginitis is not an STI but sex and sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can trigger it. Vaginitis means soreness and swelling of the vagina.

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Family and Sexual Health


Children learn about sexual health from Year 5 and 6 in primary school and throughout secondary school.  This is to prepare them for puberty and changes in their bodies and inform them about sexually healthy behaviour.  Ask Brook has a section on puberty as well as anatomical diagrams. Sessions also explain that from a young age, we start to think about love, romance, and sex and we will meet a variety of people who we may be compatible with as friends or partners

Streetwise is commissioned by Newcastle City Council to provide information, advice, services and emotional and mental health support for young people.


Girls will experience menstruation or periods somewhere between the ages of 8 and 17 years.  A menstrual cycle starts on the day that you get your period and lasts until the day before you get your next one. The average menstrual cycle is 28 days, but it can be a bit longer or shorter for some people.  Every month, your womb or uterus (which is the space where a baby develops) builds up its lining in order to prepare for getting pregnant. This lining, which is mostly made up of blood, is what you shed when your period starts. This is why your periods stop when you become pregnant. The womb lining is used to provide nutrients to the growing baby instead.


Menopause means the stopping of periods. Someone is defined as having reached menopause one year after having their last period. The average age for menopause is 52, but it can happen much earlier. This is called premature menopause.

Symptoms can start a long time before menopause, usually in the mid to late 40s. This is called peri menopause. Your fertility (ability to have children) will fade away and stop. At the same time, your periods will become irregular, then stop.  You may like to speak to your GP about symptoms and treatment if it is causing you problems.

Erectile Dysfunction

Some men experience erectile dysfunction.  This may be related to stress, alcohol and drugs, illness or tiredness. These symptoms may be temporary.  If you are worried, you can get help at the New Croft Centre.

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There are many different types of relationships in life:

  • family
  • friends and acquaintances
  • teachers and colleagues
  • romantic or sexual partners

Healthy relationships help you to thrive and provide support when you we feel anxious, scared or vulnerable. Good relationships are based on respect, trust, and communication. That’s true whether it’s your relationship with your best friend, your teacher or your partner.

See our information on sex family and relationships and sex in later life.

Last updated: March 17, 2020

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